When you are running alone, do you ever start to pick up the pace of someone who is running close to you? Or worse yet, do you ever start to run faster because someone has come up from behind you and is about to pass you? I do this all the time! I'd like to call it law of attraction, but the reality is its competition.
Today I was having one of those runs...I was doing a 13 miler. All was going well, and I felt comfortable enough with my pace. I ran from my house through North Beach, the weather was beautiful, the temperature was perfect and I was in my groove. I ran around Giants Stadium (whatever its called these days), noticed all the people already heading in for the game (at 9 am) and my thoughts were free and clear. Until I saw her.
I noticed the woman from a distance. She didn't seem to be running overly fast. I sized her up, as usual, and she appeared to be the same size as me, wearing official running shorts and a good running top (you can always tell the rookies by what they wear running - that will be a blog for another day). As I was approaching Epic Roast house, I noticed she
disappeared. Maybe she went in for a beer, who knows, I wasn't even bothered at that point. But, a few seconds later she ran up next to me. Well not NEXT to me next to me, just close enough. She must have gone pee or grabbed some water (is there a drinking fountain back there?). Regardless, she was 10 feet away from me on my left.
Sometimes this isn't a problem and I can speed up for awhile leaving my competitor in the dust. But today we were running the exact same pace. I couldn't keep my mind off of it. I was horrified. I couldn't and wouldn't go any faster, she would go any slower, and thank God she didn't go any faster -that would have been a blow to my ego. So we ran at this close distance for about 3 miles. That was 30 minutes of misery for me. Should I have said something? "hi, seems like we run at the same pace, do you want to run with me sometime?" or "so, what's on your
play list?" or how about, "did you take a pee at Epic or is there a hidden
bubbler back there?" It was SO uncomfortable.
Needless to say, she took off at the Wharf (she was probably as uncomfortable as I was) and I could run my final 7 on my very own. I adapted my speed to
accommodate others only a few times for the rest of my run, and passed a few men, which is always a good feeling.